Episode 102: The Spiritual Law of Detachment

Hello and welcome, everyone, to today's episode. Let's talk about a spiritual law. First off, I love talking about spiritual laws because they help with our manifesting efforts. When we know what spiritual laws to work with consciously, it can change the outcome of the desired intention because you could be doing something that's preventing you from bringing that intention into reality. It's really important if you have a desire and you're wanting to make it come into fruition, but you're having a hard time doing it, this particular law is going to assist you in that. That is the spiritual law of detachment.

The spiritual law of detachment is very simple. You set an intention, and you let go of any attachment that you have around how it should come into fruition, into your reality, into actualization. That can be very hard because you have to befriend uncertainty. And, oh my goodness, life as a human is very uncertain at times. When you have the ability to befriend uncertainty, and you practice this law of detachment, the spiritual law of detachment, it can feel really challenging at times because you have to surrender. You have to let go of outcome.

This can be challenging because some people want to control everything, especially any of you perfectionists out there. I am a perfectionist, so I get this. This is really hard sometimes to go; Here, universe, this is my desire. I believe in it. Now, allow it to come about however you feel is best for me to receive it. It can feel so hard because our human mind wants to control the way we think it's supposed to be, from what action steps we take, what resources we have, what people can help us. It's a very limited skewed perception of how the desire can come about. You have to, one, detach yourself from outcome.

Two, you have to befriend uncertainty. Three, you have to surrender. Four, you have to believe and trust that the universe is going to deliver what it is that you are wanting to have. The best way to go about this detachment is to open your mind, open your heart to allowing it to birth itself in the way that you never thought possible. Let me explain that in a different way. For me, I've been told many, many different times from the guardians of the records, from my guides, that something's going to happen, that this desire that I have is going to happen.

And the way my human brain perceives it is never as grandiose and as amazing as the universe, creation, delivers it. It's because of the journey that's along the way to creating that desire because I can never anticipate, I can never guess, and yes, I can tap into my intuition, and yes, I can get downloads. But the way that I perceived it from day one to, let's say, a year from now or 10 years from now is completely different because each day I'm changing just like each day you're changing.

The more that we get uncomfortable with uncertainty and not try to control every little move, every little action, the easier it is to become and allow it to come into our awareness and into our reality. This also means that you have to be open to other ways of it being with you. What I mean by that is, there's many things that you want to manifest in your life. When you're in the process of manifesting it, you have to pay attention to your thoughts. You have to ask yourself, am I allowing myself to be present in the moment and not trying to attach myself to the way I want it to be.

For example, let's say you're wanting to manifest a romantic partner, and you're going on dates. Every time you go on a date, you're like, Is this the one? Is this the one? Is this the one? You're not allowing yourself to be fully present. You're focusing on the outcome instead of the journey. Sometimes we have to go through many dates in order to catch the one and be with the one because those other experiences allow us to attract the partner that we're meant to be with. There's this presence that has to happen along the journey and allowing and trusting that creation the universe is going to provide for you.

Because you might have a conversation with someone on a date where you get to profoundly know yourself in a completely different way. If you wouldn't have had that date with Mr. Wrong or Ms. Wrong or the partner that you thought may be that right person, but you're like, red flag, red flag, red flag, and you got an opportunity to meet a different aspect of you so that you can attract the right person. And so where you're at on your manifesting journey, and when you allow yourself to practice this detachment, you get an opportunity to really profoundly discover something new about yourself.

With that, then you up level, you raise your vibration, you raise your consciousness to attract more experiences to get you closer to your desired outcome, to eventually it manifesting in its beautifulness into your reality. Now, with that also being said, this can be very challenging because if we're focusing so much on a goal, what ends up happening is we create constriction instead of expansion. I'll give you another example. Let's say you're having a hard time with finances. You're like, Amy, how am I supposed to practice detachment when I need to pay my bills, and I'm so stressed out about paying my bills?

I need money to come into my reality right now, and I am so stressed out. It's hard to go; yeah, I just need to practice detachment when I'm already so stressed out about money. I'm going to tell you, I hear you, and I'm so sorry. However, that is the most important time to express and detach from outcome and just trust that the universe is going to provide you exactly what you need when you need it. And so for this example with money, so instead of focusing on, I got to receive this large sum of money.

The only way I'm going to get money is if I work doing this, this, and this. And so this creates this limited belief that this is the only way that I can receive money in order to pay my bills versus universe; I'm handing this over to you. I'm going to show up and do exactly what I know I'm supposed to be doing at this exact moment in time, which is going to work to get money. But please support me in providing money in other ways so that I am not stressed out about paying my bills. And then you just hand it over to the universe. What that also means is you're not negative, you're not obsessing about paying your bills.

You're just trusting that it's going to happen and that when the opportunity arises, you're going to say yes to the opportunity, or you're going to celebrate it. This is also really important to not focus on and dread every bill that you have that you open or you look at on the internet where instead of dreading it, you go, Thank you for what you provided me. Thank you for providing me with electricity. Thank you for providing me with water.

I am so grateful the universe is providing me with financial resources that I can pay this bill with. It can be very hard, especially if you're in a space where you're struggling. But I'm telling you, if you can take a step back and be present, be grateful and surrender to the uncertainty of what's going to come, you are going to be provided for in ways that you never thought was possible. I know that when I have had guidance where it's like, this is what's going to come into fruition, I'm like, Wait, what? I don't even know how that's supposed to be. And that can be hard because you got to let go of the how.

When you let go of the how, that's a part of the detachment of the outcome and detachment of all the action steps that have to happen. You then allow the universe to provide you with the how along the way while you're taking action steps. And those action steps are small baby steps towards the goal. So it can be hard, my friend. But this spiritual law is really an amazing spiritual law if you give yourself permission to practice it along the way. And you totally got it. You absolutely, amazing, 100% got it.

All right, my friends, I hope you enjoyed today's episode. Please make sure you like and subscribe, and I look forward to seeing you in the next one. Bye.