Episode 88: Soul Chats with Petia Kolibova

Episode 88: Soul Chats with Petia Kolibova

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Being in flow is so important when it comes to manifesting a life that you truly love. Embracing your femininity and balancing both your masculinity and femininity will allow you to be in flow. I had a beautiful Soul Chat with Petia Kolibova, where we took a deep dive into the feminine flow, wounded masculine, trusting your intuition, romantic relationships, and human design!

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SOUL CHATS WITH PETIA KOLIBOVA 

FEMININE FLOW

Being in flow is so important when it comes to manifesting a life that you truly love. Embracing your femininity and balancing both your masculinity and femininity will allow you to be in flow with the universe.

I had a beautiful Soul Chat with Petia Kolibova, where we took a deep dive into the feminine flow, wounded masculine, trusting your intuition, romantic relationships, and human design!

Being in feminine flow vs. pushing and forcing your way through something will allow you to be more at ease and approach life differently. It doesn’t matter if you are a man or woman; you can embrace the feminine energy and allow the feminine flow to support you in your endeavors. It doesn’t matter how much success you have or how many goals you achieve if you don’t feel fulfilled. Petia realized along her journey that true success without soul is no success at all.

We get to create success from the soul, meaning being aligned with your truth, taking care of yourself holistically, and creating abundance from a place that is inside out.

We create our success when we are aligned with our truth and care for ourselves holisticallyCLICK TO TWEET

SOULFUL SUCCESS

Petia created a beautiful online experience called Soulful Success Experience, where she invited 20 experts who are living this way who created success from their souls.

You can check out her program here: https://petia-kolibova.mykajabi.com/a/2147515822/Bfo6Gi8L

IN THIS EPISODE

In this episode, you will learn:

  • What femininity flow is, and how the wounded masculine can impact your life.
  • The less you work, the more money you can make when you allow yourself to be in feminine flow.
  • You can be uncomfortable and not like the thing you are doing.
  • Finding what works for you is essential, and not everything will work for you.
  • Your core desires and values need to be the same as your romantic partner.
  • What is a weekly relationship review, and why is it important?
  • What is human design, and how it can help with your relationship and business.
  • Talking is not communicating.

 

ABOUT PETIA KOLIBOVA

Petia Kolibova is an alignment women’s coach who guides women to intuitively connect with their inner vision so they can experience personal and professional magnetism and become unapologetically abundant. Her mission is to empower visionaries who are on the path to embodying their fullest self-expression to soulfully expand into a quantum leap in all dimensions of their lives.

Petia gives immense clarity + exact steps to unlock women’s divine feminine and abundance mindset. Through subconscious work as a certified breathwork facilitator, reiki, NLP & Human Design practitioner, she leads her 6 and 7-figure clients to their next level in life and business. If she is not interviewing fellow experts on her podcast Unapologetically Abundant, traveling the world with her husband, hosting retreats, or reading, you will find her in nature disconnecting from the world, connecting even deeper to herself.

To learn more about Petia, you can explore her online presence at the links below.

Website: https://petiakolibova.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/petiakolibova/

 

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Full transcription of the episode:

Hello, and welcome to today's Soul Chat interview. I'm so excited that you are here. I have a very special guest, Petia Kolibova. We end up talking about abundance, human design, being in feminine flow, and so much more.

Petia is an alignment women's coach who guides women to intuitively connect with their inner vision so they can experience personal and professional magnetism and become unapologetically abundant. Her mission is to empower visionaries who are on the path to embody their fullest expression to soulfully expand into a quantum leap in all dimensions of their lives. Petia gives immense clarity and exact steps to unlock women's divine, feminine, and abundance mindsets through subconscious work as a certain through subconscious work. As a certified breathwork facilitator, Reiki, NLP, and Human Design practitioner, she leads her six and seven-figure clients to their next level in life and business. If she is not interviewing fellow experts on her podcast, Unapologetically Abundant, traveling the world with her husband, hosting retreats or readings, you will find her reading or cuddling with her dog, Baby.

This was a very fun Soul Chat interview. I hope you guys enjoy it. Let me know what you think, and let's jump in.

Amy
Hello everyone, and welcome to today's show.

Amy
Hi, Petia.

Amy
How are you doing today?

Petia
Hey Amy, I'm doing amazing. And I know it's going to get even better by being here with you today.

Amy
I'm so excited to chat with you today. You are a person that loves to be in feminine flow. What is that and what does it look like and feel like?

Petia
I love the question. I feel that sometimes we really get to experience the contrast, to really know what the opposite is. Like, we wouldn't know what light is, if there wasn't darkness, right? And I feel like most of my life I was in a wounded masculine energy. I was just very single focused and planning and strategizing and focusing on providing and protection because that's something that I didn't received when I was growing up. So I'm like, okay, if no one does that for me, I have to do that for myself and for those around me. So I was very much striked and in my masculine, and that showed up, of course, in my relationships. It showed up in my work, it showed up in my environment. Even in the hobbies that I have. I was doing cross fit and I was doing fitness competitions, and there's nothing wrong with that, of course. Women do it, you can be a feminine woman and do it, but it's not so much about what we do, but why we do it.

Petia
I always try to keep a hard shell around me so no one can get in. And I started to notice a decade ago that I was getting burned out physically, mentally, and emotionally, because there was no balance. There was almost no feminine, like, yeah, I had long hair and I put on dresses, but there was nothing soft and feminine and receptive and there was no allowing. I feel like I kind of forced out my masculine because everything has to be perfect and controlled. Even the food, its portions, and the work that I was doing.

Petia
One time I went for a weekend to a cabin in the woods in Las Vegas, and I had, everything planned. You go for a weekend and you bring your laptop and you bring your phone and you plan the work and the school. Back then I was working on getting my masters in business. I was a personal trainer on the side. I had social media marketing agency as my first business. And I was working in a corporate full time. So everything has to be very detailed. And on that day when we arrived, the internet wasn't working because, mind you, we're in a mountain, right?

Petia
We're in a mountain, so there's no reception. Forget that. But I completely freak out. I had a panic attack. My clients will fire me, I won't finish my school. The worst of the worst in my head, and I couldn't even breathe. I'm like, okay, I got to get out of here. So I grabbed my dog. I'm like, let's go for a walk. And it was like an hour in nature and just walking, and I could feel the softening, and I could feel like the nature really just like, pulling away the heaviness. And of course I come back, the Internet is working, and I was able to do in just a few hours what would normally take me days.

Amy
Yeah.

Petia
I allowed myself to soften up. So that was like the first slap in my face, like, Petia, it doesn't have to be all hard. It doesn't have to be all control. Like, relax, soften, and receive. So that's when I first realized that it's not this or that in life, it's this and that. So I started to introduce feminine energy, and I started to be really curious about how am I feeling and how am I living my life?

Petia
And I went and asked Uncle Google, what do you do? Like, preventing burn out, feeling unhappy, feeling unfulfilled and all these things. And that's when I started to notice it's the masculine and feminine flow. When you just really push on one side and don't allow space for the other, that's when you're starting to struggle emotionally, spiritually, physically. So I started to work on that and work less. And it was so fascinating for me because I became the observer, what is happening and when. And I realize that the less work, the more money I make.

Amy
Oh, for sure. And I am right there with you because I think that oftentimes... I also had a traumatic childhood. So it's a trauma response. So if you can control this environment, you can control your work, you can control success, you can control this. And it becomes very rigid. We actually end up burning out ten times faster. But if we actually just feed our soul in a completely different way, we make more money and we're in flow in a different way. So I love that you really got to witness that ten years ago. And how has your life changed since then?

Petia
Absolutely. Because even just like, looking at... I feel like all of the aspects of my life really change my health, my relationship to my body, my relationship with boundaries. And in the past, Amy, I feel like no matter with how many people I was, I felt lonely. Now I'm alone and I'm so happy.

Amy
Isn't that crazy?

Petia
I know, because... And I used to hate silence. Like, I would come home and turn on the TV and radio and you jump on the chat messages like back then, right, decades ago, when we were still just, like, chatting. And it's so fascinating to me. Like, I am enjoying just to lay down in a backyard and read a book by myself and just you start to notice how differently you're feeling. What are you allowing in your life? And even five years ago, I attracted my husband and he is completely opposite to what I ever experienced in the past. He is so caring, loving. I might feel like cropping(?) in bed with fever and he will still call me my beautiful queen. It's just like so beautiful. But it's really the reflection of we get to remember the way we treat ourselves, we teach others how to treat us.

Petia
So first I had to really slow down and realize who I really am. And then I could attract the right people, right opportunities, change my business, change my approach, change who I'm attracting in my life as a client. So completely everything changed. And it's very interesting because I feel like even at the beginning of my journey, Amy, I feel like, I don't know, there was like this struggle going from the complete masculine energy into complete feminine flow. Like, oh, I'll just hear lay in my hammock and everything will be manifested to me. So I had to learn in my life and in my business, how do I blend these two? How do I dance? How do I know when is the time to go and how do I know when is the time to flow? When is the time to allow and when is the time to take an inspired action? Because without the action, like, you're just literally living in a la-la land. It's just like dreaming, but you're not impacting anyone.

Amy
Yeah, exactly. We need both energies. We need the sacred feminine and we need the sacred masculine because it's not all about just becoming super ultra sacred feminine because stuff has to get done. Stuff has to get done. And stuff could be as simple as people working in the fields to bring food in. Like, that's work. That's something that nourishes our bodies. So there is action that's required. So I love that too, that you're mentioning that it's both because I think that if we go one way or the other, it becomes very unhealthy and very off balance really quickly.

Petia
Absolutely. That's the thing. You will feel it in your life. You will feel when you're of balance, you will feel when you're out of alignment, one with who you really are, but also with who you came here to be. Like, you're not going to feel peaceful and satisfied. And also when I started this journey, Amy, I felt like really like deep sadness in the days that I didn't feel like happy. I was thinking, something is wrong with me. And we really have to remember and realize that it's not going to be like 24/7 joyful happiness. Right. It's not like we are living somewhere in the mountains and there is no other influence from the outside world. And you get to look at your life and ask yourself the majority of the time, am I fulfilled? Am I satisfied? Am I really happy with how am I showing up in the world?

Amy
I think that's really important because there's this chase for happiness. We're constantly racing. Well, if I do this next thing, I'll be happy. When I fulfill this thing, I'll be happy. What about just being happy on the journey that you're on, to that great accomplishment or that great next AHA. Or that great breakthrough? We're not... It's not an end goal. Like, we get to choose to be happy in this moment. I think that's really important for people to distinguish that. I also think that uncertainty is a part of life in general, anyways. So what do you do when you are feeling like, uncertainty is happening or sadness is happening? What do you do to, one, just comfort yourself? And two, how do you get out of that?

Petia
I love that. And I also feel like it's important when you said it. Amy, we have to remember that uncertainty is a part of life, and we actually like it. Imagine if everything in your life is certain, if you know 100% what is going to happen when, what your husband will say, what your kids will say, what will happen. You would die of boredom.

Amy
Oh, my God, I would be so bored.

Petia
It's a human need. One of the... Tony Robbins is describing there's, like, six human needs, and one of them is certainty, and one of them is uncertainty. So just, like, realizing, like, this is part of life, and this is what is helping us grow and to expand, that would be the first step. But the second step, it's super important, especially for women, to ask themselves and ourselves, what do I need right now? What do I need right now? Because it's so easy for us to go out and take care of the world because we are the leaders. Take care of the family, because they depend on us, right? What do you need? What do you need right now? What would suit you right now? What would make you feel better right now? What would satisfy you right now? And it doesn't have to be nothing groundbreaking. It can be just, you know what? Let me go in... I like sometimes doing it when I'm feeling, like, low energy. I go in front of our house, and we have, like, beautiful palm trees there, and we have, like, a little bench there. And it's usually, like, most of the day in front of our house, it's sunny.So I go there and I sit there, and I just breathe, and there are, like, hummingbirds, and it's like this beautiful reset. And you can even ask yourself, how can I reset my energy?

Petia
My husband, what he loves, which don't count me in that, he loves taking, like, in the middle of the day, like, cold shower for, like, five minutes, and I'm like, no, it's winter. It's outside. Don't do that to me. I will go meditate. I will go on the sun. I will go cuddle the dog or my husband. But he like, does... We have like a mini trampoline in our room. So he will do mini trampoline or cold shower or our friend, she lives close, she has a pool. So my husband goes and does like cold plunges.

Amy
I think it's great because there's actually research that shows you're angry and you go and take... splash cold water or something or plunge into cold water. It resets the system. Is that my preferred option? No, but for me, I'm on a journey of embracing cold right now. So it's like every shower cold water because there's research on it, but you don't have to enjoy doing it either.

Petia
I absolutely hear you. And the thing is that there is a research for everything. You will find an evidence for everything you're looking for. So if I want to find an evidence that cold shower can be harming for you, maybe it's harming your nervous system because it's shocking. There are times that you shouldn't be doing cold showers and plunges. Like if you're, for example, experience trauma, if you are pregnant, things like that. It's very interesting. Like I am all about yes, embracing the uncomfortable and also knowing, is this going to make me feel better? Is this what I need right now? And I mentioned to you we just moved from Mexico, white sand beaches. I was like half naked all day in bikini and now coming back to Las Vegas in like fifties and sweater weather. I'm like that's my saying yes to the cold.

Amy
That's your way of embracing the cold. I totally get that because when we moved to the desert, that was our experience too. I'm like, okay, I'm saying yes to the cold. And then gradually we increased our discomfort level around cold. But I love that you have your own practices and your husband has his own practices. Because our spouse does not have to have the same practices as us. And what works for you or works for him, it might not work for another person. So it's finding what works for you that really helps for the reset, I think is really important. So I love that you shared that too.

Petia
Yeah, and I feel like it's so important because when we're in a relationship, sometimes we want our partners to do exactly the same things we are doing. And I feel like it's very important to have the core foundation, the same you have to have the same goals in life. Like when I met my husband the first day, it wasn't date. Like we met in a Mastermind five years ago here in Las Vegas. But we were like chatting after the event in the evening and I asked him like, what are your short term and long term goals? And mind you, I didn't even look at him as possible partner. But I feel like it's so important to understand that the people that we surround ourselves with, they have to have a similar or same short and long term goals. Because if someone wants to be enjoying life and partying and just like living on the edge and you want to settle and build business and build foun dations. What do you have in common?

Amy
You have a totally different past.

Petia
Exactly. So I feel like the core desires and the core goals have to be the same. But then you get to realize you're whole incomplete person as you are. And when you have a different hobbies or different things that you are doing, you can come and share with one another. You will have still something to talk about.

Amy
Yeah. What do you say to someone that let's say they've been in a relationship for a really long time and their partner and them are on two different pages?

Petia
It's very it does happen, but I don't feel like it happens overnight. So ideally I would say don't get there. Right. Because me and my husband, when we started and when we started dating, we called the Deep Ink. We were like, we're not dating. We are deep ink. We are deep in the we were doing a weekly relationship review and we were talking about I don't remember how many questions we had. There maybe like six or seven questions that we were asking and replying like, what are you grateful for? For the other? When did you feel loved? What can improve? And also there was a question like, what makes you want to pull away? Because we have to remember there are times that they're like, I would better be alone if I don't have to cook and clean and whatever. Right. There are times that you don't agree with your partner. And the sad thing is that we keep it usually in sight and then we let it explode. But when you have a weekly relationship review, you bring it up, hey, it's uncomfortable. Sometimes it's not pretty, sometimes it's painful. But it's better to say these things weekly than five years down the road and you realize I'm not on the same page with my partner.

Petia
So weekly relationship review, but also weekly dates, no matter what, you have to make sure that you put your partner first because Kietz will leave you eventually. Ideally, your partner won't. So it's like you to our team.

Amy
Right? Absolutely. And I think that that's really important. My husband and I were just having a conversation about having conversations about things that people find uncomfortable having conversations about. And I think that the more that you get comfortable having uncomfortable conversations, the easier it is to navigate in any type of relationship. And so my husband always like, I have a rule, just take care of it right away. Don't let it fester. Because the second you let it faster, that's when it blows up at the most inopportune time, when it's not an appropriate conversation to have and it's just not the right timing. So it's never going to be the right timing. So just have the conversation right away when it's the right timing within that context. So I love that you guys have weekly reviews. Do you guys still do something like that now?

Petia
We were doing it the first couple of years of our life and then we shifted focus on business and we're traveling a lot. But now we started to do it again because we realized what deepen our relationship so much was the relationship review. So we started to actually do it like a couple of months ago when we moved back to States. So now it's funny because we do like on Friday afternoon we do business review, then we do relationship review and then we go on a date.

Amy
How fun. It kind of gets rid of all this stuff that needs to get rid of so you guys can go and have fun about it. Probably business at dinner too, because you and your husband are in business together.

Petia
We are now because he has his own business. And then he was healing me a lot because he's the analytical, strategical, technical and I'm the flow and the feminine and the relationship queen. So he was contributing so much in my business and a few months ago I was like, why don't you come full time, like multiple six figure business? Why you're building something on the side and I'm building something like, let's come together. So he has some of his still clients from his business, but he came now full time into our business because it's so beautiful when you can bring the gifts together.

Amy
And how are you guys navigating that? Because having a family business can be challenging.

Petia
I feel like it's interesting because we live together since the beginning of our relationship. First year was like long distance because he lived in California, I live in Vegas. But he was here every two weeks. So it's not like it was terrible, right? But we both work from home, so we are used to work around each other. And now when we are working in the business, the challenge that I'm feeling is the different personalities. And he's very analytical and very detail oriented. I'm more of the flow, more of the trust, more of like, I will do it when it feels right to me, not when it feels good. Like, mind you, I can lay in my hammock all day and do nothing, right? It's not that. It's when it feels right to me because I know that the energy I put out is the energy that I get back. And for me in human design, I'm a generator. I get to be magnetic. When I'm feeling good, I'm magnetic. And I achieve so much more in such a short period of time and it's just so beautiful. So he has to understand that I am not going to be thrilled by filling in forms and Excel spreadsheets.

Petia
And he tried to make me do that last week because he trains also our team. We have several people on our team and he was training them on Click Up. I don't know if you're familiar, but.

Amy
I know what Click Up is. Yeah.

Petia
And I'm like, no, honey, no. I love you so much. I will do whatever it takes, but this is not what it takes. Like, if it's better for our team to have tasks there, great, but you will drain my life force and my energy, and I get to focus on the things that lights me up, because when I'm lit up, it's when we make money, not when I'm sitting in front of spreadsheets and doing so. You see, like, there is this difference, but we have clear boundaries. And even though his money Jenny, so he will get frustrated when things are not like how he wants them, but he's like, I respect you and I trust you. And he saw it a million times before. My intuition and my magnetism, it's what creates abundance. It's not me sitting in front of the computer and spreadsheets.

Amy
No, I'm a generator, too. That's not my genius zone. It gives me anxiety. Do not give me a spreadsheet. Do not give me all these weird little things that I have to keep track of. But that's where you hire people to be in their genius zone that loves those things and are they important? Yes, for keeping organization, but for me, no, don't give me any of that. So I totally get you on that one. No.

Petia
Yeah. I feel like it's like clear communication and clear boundaries, and I'm really learning how to be a good communicator because we think that talking, it's communicating, and it's not. So how to be a communicator with a client, with your team members, with your husband who works with you, it's completely different. So it's constant learning and learning and how to be really effective, so it makes an impact and it doesn't hurt people. So we can really leave people in their zone of genius and respect them, but each and everyone was like, let's stay in our own lines.

Amy
Yeah. Running a business is not for the faint of hearts. And then when you add family dynamics to it, and then you have team members, there's a lot of patience and a lot of holding multiple perspectives on things as well. So I love that you guys are working together. Good luck on that. As you navigate this new chapter, let's talk about human design. I love human design, and I know that you use human design in your business. For people that don't know what human design is, share a little bit about what it is.

Petia
I feel like human design is such a powerful and beautiful modality that helps you align with who you really came here to be. And people can just easily, like, ask Uncle Google and to go in a rabbit hole. Because when I started studying human design, like, over four years ago. Just the basics can take you really an hour, but it is really a system that has been downloaded by the Spirit on a retreat to Rahul. And he's a guy who, like, lived in Canada. He got the download, and I believe it was in four days. I know he was on retreats in Ebay in four days. He downloaded like a book of 400 pages where he downloaded the system, which is a beautiful modality that contains, like, the heart chakra, the I Ching, the Kabbalah, quantum physics, astrology, all blended together to bring you a beautiful body graph that shows you, like, your body, your centers, your channels, your gates. And it's so complex that I'm studying it over four years, and I'm like, I'm still scratching just the surface.

Amy
For sure. It's a very complex system, but I love human design.

Petia
It's creating me too. And it's funny because I got introduced to it like six years ago, and I resisted the first two years. I'm like, oh, another boom, another thing, another thing to do and learn. I'm like, no, but then it just kept, like, coming and coming. I was like, okay. So I had my first human design reading. I was like, wow, like, all the things that I thought they're wrong with me, I was designed to be that. It's like this beautiful permission slip to be yourself and to understand your gifts and why you came here. And then you just started to look at the charts of people around you and how life giving when you can really be around those that you love and make them feel seen and heard her in such a beautiful way.

Amy
Oh, I think it's fascinating. I think that the second I figured out my husband was a projector, it made me realize that everybody needs a projector in their business. Yes, period. And they need to be invited to share their thoughts, but usually they're always right, which is so fascinating to me. So, like, the second I know that if he's not invited to share advice to me, I'm not going to listen to it, even if his advice is valid, which I think is really fascinating. But I love the whole gates and channels. And what are your thoughts around? What I've been told is that if I have a channel that's not completed, but you have that channel completed, we can work synergistically together to complete a channel. Absolutely.

Petia
No, that's how it works. When you think about it's, the magnetism, right? It's like you're attracting your opposite, but you are attracting people to fulfill you. We have to remember you're healing complete. You don't need anyone. You have everything you need in your chart, however energetically. You will have filled some channels. You will have filled some centers. And if other people around you don't have them filled or you have them filled, you're going to make feel each other more complete, more magnetic. And it's also like looking at the definitions. For example, I'm a single definition, so that means I'm very individualistic. I don't need anyone to complete me. I am good on my own. I love doing my retreats alone. I invite facilitators, but co hosting something doesn't light me up. My husband is a split definition, so he thrives around people because the more things that, like you said, the channel that you have spirit, and there is a split, triple split, quadruple split, the more splits you have, the better you are doing around other people. So he thrives in groups, and I drive in one on one. I love one on one.

Petia
And I tried before, I tried doing membership in my business. I tried to do groups. I tried to like me joining Mastermind. I'm like, I just love the one on one, and that's what it is for me. So you see, like, instead of forcing yourself to do what everyone else is doing or your coach is telling you to do, like, you know your truth.

Amy
Yeah, I think that's a really big awareness, too, because if you are a single definition and you're trying to do this big, huge group thing, it's never going to work. It's just going to constantly feel heavy or cumbersome or whatever it is that makes you feel not like it's your thing. And that's okay, too. I think it's unique, like, when you can say and look at it and go, I can do this other thing over here that makes me feel passionate about it and lights me up.

Petia
Exactly. And that's why I feel like I really feel like human design. It's such a beautiful permission slip to be you and to be anapologetically you and for those around you who are open to communicate with you in a way that you need. Like, my spiritual wife, she's a projector one three projector, you know, emotional. So, like you said, she's right. Like, anytime I want to ask something, like I'm asking her, I'm like, hey, how do you feel about it? Like, you don't have to answer right now. Sleep on it, but let me know how you feel about it. And it's so beautiful to understand. Where are we thriving? It was very interesting because projectors, they are learning through us. I don't know if you knew that, but they don't have self awareness. They are learning through us. So we are learning, like, helping them to learn the world around them.

Amy
That makes complete sense.

Petia
Yeah. Last week, I was deciding on something. I was doing a decision, and I was choosing between three people to work with. And I met one person. I'm like, I just felt it. I'm like, this is it. I want to work with this woman. Like, but I had two more appointments, and I asked myself, do I want to invest my energy into those two more appointments? And right away, it was like, no, my. Sacral. No. But then I get in my head. I'm like, well, but I should honor my commitment. I should look, maybe they're better or good. And I was in my head. So of course I'm texting my spiritual wife. I'm like, what do you think? And she she's so smart. Like, she doesn't give me answers. She asked me a question, and she asked me exactly, hey, do you want to invest energy into those two more meetings? I'm like, no. She was like, I love how you're listening to your sacral, because that's how you know it's right away when you're.

Amy
Sacral, I'm sacral too, so I know exactly what you're talking about. And so for people, just for context, sacral people, they either hear a yes or no, or they have some sort of sign that it's a definite yes or no. Like, we can ask a million times and we will get the answer. And I know with this, too, for me, there's little wiggle room for going against my intuition when I already know the answer. So I can understand and appreciate the grappling decision because you did make the appointment, and that would feel hard because you made it, but you already know what the answer is. So what did you decide?

Petia
The same day? I just texted them and thank them and told them, I decide for someone else. So I just cancel the appointments because I feel like it's like honoring the boundaries and honoring, like, yes, you can honor your commitments, but also, why would I honor commitments if I know it's a waste of time?

Amy
You're just wasting their time too.

Petia
Exactly. And like, my husband, he's emotional, so he's not meant to be deciding. There is never a truth in the moment for him. And we're talking about authorities. There are different outrates, emotional, sacral, spleenic ego, like, so many, right? But it's like, just get to know yourself. Get reading of human design. Like, if you have any questions, you can message me. I just feel like human design, it's so life giving and so freeing and unlike, I tried in the past to do a many personality test. I love quizzes and things like that. What happened is that I was always such a smart thingy, and I'm like, oh, if I answer this, then I will get this answer. And if I do that so every single day, I would take a test, I would get, like, a different result. Right? And with a human design, like, you can't lie.

Amy
Oh, you can't. And that's why I tell people with personality tests, you don't take a personality test when you're in a weird mood. You want to take it when you're just in your normal mood. Not in an ecstatic mood, not in a bad mood, just normal mood, because that will give you the best results on what it is. But, yeah, human design, you're right. It's based on your birth, where you're at, and there's tons of free stuff. You use human design in your business? How do you use human design for business?

Petia
My crystals are flying around. I feel like for me, it's very important to know how to speak to people and how to see them. So every single of my clients, they give me their birthday. Every single team member I work with, I get to understand what are their gifts. And so I use it in my business this way. And of course, I also use my design in my business to know how to lead people, how to do things. So it's very life giving to know who people who come to me are. And it's very interesting, like the type of people that I'm attracting, looking at, like, do they have more sacral, do they have more emotional outerity, what kind of people are drawn to me? And everyone who comes to me, they're feeling deeply seen and understood because I deeply care.

Amy
That's awesome. Now, with human design, I know you need to know your time of birth and where you're born. What do you do if you don't know what time you're born at? Because there are some people I just don't know.

Petia
I know, and the thing is, there are a few ways. One, you can like when you get your birth certificate, it will be there. They just request your birth certificate, like a copy, and usually it's free or it's like a quick. So just if you can however, to get it, get it. Like getting birth certificate, if you cannot get it. And if you just don't know. There are also astrology. astrologies, like people astrologists who are focusing on that, they can help you to discover your birth time. So if you have a date and the place, they can help you discover that. The last option would be to just play with it. So let's try like noon, let's try 09:00 A.m.. Let's try 03:00 p.m.. Because usually the design and the profile and authority, they're not going to change because of the time.

Amy
They're very close.

Petia
But there are other details that will change, like what is your strongest sense or your channels. And some things can change, so you can really feel into that, like what is true for you. But again, I feel like so many people are living like conditioned, so they don't even know what is true for them. But I feel like they're always like waste around. Like I said, getting your birth certificate, working with the astrologies, you can have one session with astrology to figure it out, your birth time, or just play with it. Like if my clients, they don't know, don't know. I do noon. And then I intuitively feel into that and play with the times.

Amy
That's great because there are just some people that just don't know, or they're not able to get their hands on a birth certificate, or the birth certificate doesn't have the time depending on when interesting, right? I have met all sorts of different people that they come from different places or countries, countries and things like that, where just stuff wasn't documented properly or whatever the case is. They just don't know, or their parents don't know, or they weren't like they were adopted. There's all sorts of different reasons why someone might not know it. So I always like asking that question because it's such a fascinating thing and not a lot of people know what time they were born at too. So check your birth certificate. Yes. I love it. Do you do human design ratings or what?

Petia
I do.

Amy
Okay. Awesome.

Petia
It's not like I'm promoting it on my website. That's like my one thing that I'm doing. It's just a part of my business. It's a little part of it. So I do human design readings for those who are interested because I feel like such a foundational work. Like, everyone has to have that. So for me, when I do human design readings, it's a very low investment because I feel like it's like my paying it forward, it has nothing to do with my high level coaching, but human design is something that helps everyone to start because self awareness is the key to everything.

Amy
If you're interested in working with Papia, she will have her links and all of that in the show notes, in the description, so you can check her out, check out her website as well. Now, do you like using human design for manifesting?

Petia
Absolutely. Because when you look at it, and I love that you're asking, because when I started my coaching journey years ago, I was basing my coaching on my experiences, right? Like, we want to teach what we know, what we are feeling confident in. But in human design, I'm a specific manifesto. So for me, the more detailed I am, the easier I manifest the things that I desire. But thanks to human design, I learned that there are also nonspecific manifestos who have to be general, who cannot focus on the details that will get overwhelmed. So now I am teaching my clients on how to manifest when you're specific or non specific manifesto based on your design. Because it's a huge difference. Whether you tell someone, like, make a five year plan and create a pinterest board and write in your journal versus feel into it, what would you like your life to feel like and look like? And in just general terms, and people are feeling like, wow, this is so fraying. It's amazing.

Amy
How do you know if you're a specific or general?

Petia
If you're specific or non specific, you just get to look at your charts because there are like, arrows that will show you if you're specific, unknown specific, so you can get that information.

Amy
That's neat.

Petia
If you want, just send me your birthday and I can let you know.

Amy
Definitely do that. I'll definitely do that. Awesome. Perfect. Now you are. Let me look at this really quick. I'll edit this. I didn't ask you this, David. I forgot. Do you have a free gift at.

Petia
All or anything like that I can send you? I have like many, but it depends on what you're focusing on. But I have like, how to attract your soul mate clients or how to manifest money effortlessly. So it depends what your audience will benefit or if. I also have free Roadmap to Freedom, which is like about core values and knowing yourself.

Amy
Do you have anything attached to something for affiliate stuff?

Petia
Not at this moment, because we had before so we have a course that it's only, I believe only like 144 Social Success. And we had that with affiliates. So I can talk to my team and we can have that. But that's not free. That's like paid.

Amy
Yeah, well, we'll have your website. I'm here to do something with affiliate and we have a little time for because it's not going to come out next week or anything like that. So if you're okay with doing something with affiliate because I think this is soulful Success. Yes. That feels really good to talk about.

Petia
Okay.

Amy
Does that sound good? Yeah. Okay, let me take a drink of water and then we'll what's in it so I know how to direct the conversation.

Petia
So last year we created Social Success Experience. That was seven days experience. We had 20 speakers. They were speaking about how to create a success from the soul. So it contains teaching from 20 people and mine, but it's really about how to create soulful success. And there's like a lot of experiences, somatic and things like that. So you can really shift and create success.

Amy
Okay, awesome. Okay, perfect. All right, let me see how the conversation because we're just talking about human design, right? Okay, perfect. Awesome. So I know that you are also about being successful, being abundant in your business. I saw something that you have something about Soulful Success. Can you talk to me about that as well?

Petia
Absolutely. Because it's such a beautiful ending of this conversation because we started with asking about the feminine and I mentioned that I was so much in my masculine and success back then for me were numbers, how much money you make, how many people you have in your business, things like that. But no matter how many goals I achieved, I didn't feel fulfilled. So I realized along my journey that the true success without soul, it's no success at all. So we really get to create success from soul, meaning being aligned with your truth, taking care of yourself, holistically, and really creating the abundance from a place that is inside out. And that's what we did last year. We created a beautiful online experience called Soulful Success Experience. And we invited 20 experts who are living this way who created the success from their soul. And it's so important to create something that is fulfilling and lasting versus trying to speed up and chase. Just checking off all the list and then don't feel fulfilled anyway. So how to create success from your soul, it's so powerful. Such a powerful experience.

Amy
I love that. And if you guys are interested in checking out this program, we will have the links in the description and the show notes. It sounds amazing because it's nice having different perspectives, because how you say something versus how I say something versus how someone else say something. We can all be talking about the same exact thing, but having it shared in different ways can be really beneficial for us to grow and to achieve what we're wanting to achieve. Awesome. Well, I've had so much fun chatting with you. Thank you for being here today. Definitely check out the links in the show notes on the website. Thank you so much for being here.

Petia
Thank you so much for such a beautiful conversation and for all the work you're doing. Amy.

Amy
Thank you. All right, guys, please make sure you like and subscribe and share this with a friend. We can't wait to see you soon. Bye.

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