Episode 95: Be Honest With Yourself

Hello, everyone, and welcome to today’s episode. I had an episode topic planned, and my heart is saying, No, don’t talk about that today. Let’s talk about slowing down. The reason why I’m being guided to talk about this is society, and our collective consciousness is speeding up at a record pace. Society has always been push, push, push, move, move, move, hustle, hustle, hustle, let’s go fast. And we get caught up in that tornado based on societal norms, and we don’t have to participate in them.

But just our advancements in technology recently are also creating this speeding up energy, fear missing out energy. And really, what creation wants us to do is pause, slow down, take a breath, go inward, take inventory of where you’re at, what’s working for you, what’s not working for you, what your soul is truly, truly craving to create, what you’re happy with, what you dislike.

When you do these honest assessments, and you slow down in the process to do these honest assessments, you get the truth, the truth of where you’re wanting to go, the truth of where you’re at, the truth of how you feel, the truth of how you want to feel, and that truth can be super scary to look at. That’s why people just keep going and going and going and going and going until they hit a brick wall and they’re burnt out, they’re sick, they have dis-ease within their body, they don’t feel good, or they literally die from stress.

I think sometimes people have to have a health scare in order to realize how precious life is, or they have to go through some dramatic transformation in order to understand it. And yes, that can be very, very helpful. But if you actually just slow down and give yourself permission to pause, you’ll get to experience life in a completely different way. And let me tell you, looking at this stuff is scary sometimes because by looking at it, you might end up having to make some different decisions in your life.

But those decisions are the truth of where your soul wants to go. And those decisions will have a great impact on your soul’s evolution. There’s one thing that is certain in life that you will experience, and that is uncertainty. And if we get comfortable with uncertainty and we slow down to look at where you’re vibrating and where you want to go, you’ll start being led down a path of alignment.

And that path doesn’t mean everything is always rosy, is always great. What that path means is that you’ll experience what you’re meant to experience to grow. You’ll start being more honest with yourself, which would then allow you to fold more time and not take the long way around. Why vibrate in chaos when you don’t have to? If you are stuck in a tornado of responsibilities that you really don’t want to be doing, that suck your life force out of your body, how can you change it?

How can you be honest with yourself about what is required to make changes so that you feel better, you feel good, and you feel fulfilled? What is that? But you have to pause in order to do that. That can be so scary for some people. It could be scary, maybe not all the time, but just on certain topics. The more you push through, the more you create an optical illusion of your reality. What I mean by that is you’re only seeing what you’re seeing. You’re in the midst of the chaos, so you just see chaos, and you create more chaos because it’s an illusion that you’re in.

You’re in this tornado effect that keeps you in that tornado. But when you pause, you actually can see that you don’t have to be in the tornado. You don’t have to participate in it in the way that you’re participating in it. That doesn’t mean that all your responsibilities go away. You’re going to have responsibilities. It does not mean that looking at it in one second or for 20 minutes, or for a week that it’s instantly going to change your reality. What it means is it’s going to give you the honest truth. Then the steps to take to get out of the chaos and to start creating the reality that you truly want will start to become more clear.

The experiences and the people in the situations that are in alignment with you outside of the chaos will start to appear in your life through synchronicities and opportunities, and conversations. But you can’t attract those things if you’re in the middle of the tornado. You can’t attract it because your frequency is vibrating with the tornado, and you’re creating more chaos. And so, by pausing and slowing down and taking a step back, you get to experience truth and honesty.

You get to experience a new opportunity of being. And we don’t have to live in chaos. We do not have to participate in societal chaos and societal pressure and societal with keeping up with this fast pace, this very, very fast pace. Let’s keep going. Let’s keep going. Let’s keep going. Everything is just moving so darn quickly. When we pause and breathe, we go, “I’m in control. I have the ability to be at peace. I get to be in flow.” It’s such an amazing gift that you can gift yourself.

I hope that this message lands for you. I hope that this inspires you to pause and take a step back, and to slow down. Because when you slow down, you actually speed up in a different way. And speeding up, I mean by, you become more clear. You become more clear, you become more efficient, you’re not doing things out of desperation or survival mode, and you get to be on a more aligned path and to vibrate at a frequency that your soul wants to vibrate at to attract the things that you want to attract into your life. And you deserve that, my friend. You totally, totally do.

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