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Being incapable of reaching your big goals or manifesting your heart’s desires is different from being unwilling to take the steps towards them. However, you can overcome both with some simple self-discovery.
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INCAPABLE VS UNWILLING
We are all here for a reason. Some of those reasons become crystal clear through our passions, vocation, hobbies, or our talents. Having a clear sense of direction in life is a wonderful, high vibrational experience. But, sometimes, our direction in life and what we want isn’t so clear. We can become STUCK. And, there are reasons WHY!
ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION
There are so many tips and tricks to manifest your heart’s desires. Some are simple, and some are complex. I believe that manifesting a life you love starts with self-discovery, a willingness to ask yourself the questions to get to the heart of the matter. And this is my one simple tip you can do to get unstuck on your manifestation journey.
Ask yourself this: Am I capable of manifesting this into reality? Or am I unwilling to do the work to bring this into my life? On the surface, these questions can seem redundant, as if they would both have the same answer. Nothing can be further from the truth.
Am I incapable? Or unwilling? There’s a HUGE difference!
ARE YOU INCAPABLE OF MANIFESTING?
Webster’s Dictionary defines the word incapable as: lacking the capacity, ability, or qualifications to get it done. I truly believe being incapable is easier to overcome than unwillingness because it simply means you don’t have the tools to get the job done — yet. It means you need to dig a little deeper to discover what resources WILL support you in your goal and then find them, use them, and manifest!
Far too often, people who lack the resources or support they need to reach a big goal are called lazy by others, or even worse, they say it to themselves. You are not lazy. You just need more support in the form of reliable resources that can assist you on your journey towards your heart's desires.
So, if you find the answer to the big question, “I feel incapable of achieving this goal,” it’s time to do some research to find the resources available to you. Ask the universe to show you what's available in your community, locally or online. Find others who have manifested what you desire and take some notes on HOW they did it! Once you build your support system, you are well on your way to achieving exactly what you set out to achieve!
Most people are incapable because they need support.
ARE YOU UNWILLING TO MANIFEST?
What if the answer to why you aren't manifesting what you desire is “I’m just not willing.” What does THAT mean? It may mean you’ve outgrown that specific desire, and your mind, body, and soul is showing you that truth by removing the drive to accomplish that specific goal. And that’s OKAY!!
The next question is, why am I unwilling? Why am I reluctant to take these actions my heart desire? It could be that I'm scared, fearful, or I don’t believe I can succeed. You have to get honest with yourself, though. If you are unwilling because of fear, ask yourself, “If I had more support and resources to assist me in this desire, would I feel safer pursuing it?” If the answer to this is “yes,” you aren’t unwilling; you feel incapable. That can be a sign to keep going and invest in more support to help you along. But if the answer is “no,” it could be that it’s time to let go of what you used to want so you can free up that mental energy to pursue what you want in the present!
ASK FOR HELP TO MANIFEST YOUR HEART’S DESIRES
Research has shown that you're more likely to achieve a goal or the desired outcome when you share it with at least one person. The key to achieving your goal is to utilize your resources. And that also helps us get into community with others as well.
When we have resources, and when we have community, it helps us work through our fears. Just reaching out and asking for support can help us overcome those fears because we're putting ourselves out there and telling the universe, “Look, I am serious about this. I am asking for help from all available resources. I’m ready to receive!”
You do not need to be an expert in manifesting the heart's desires or whatever it is that you want to manifest. Many people and resources can support you in your manifesting efforts, and you do not have to do it alone. We are not meant to do everything alone, and people love helping others. So ask for resources, and ask for support.
Who can support me?
How can I be supported?
How can I take these next steps to manifest this very thing I want to manifest?”
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
Please do not mistake incapability as unwillingness. You could be stuck because you're incapable of taking action at that moment in time to find the resources to help you. With the right resources and support, you can move forward with your heart’s desires with more enthusiasm and less stress.
If you're unwilling, be honest with yourself and let that desire go. That desire is taking up brain space, and you can use that brain space for something else that you are in alignment with to manifest. You can outgrow things that you once desired to do. There are lots of things that I'm unwilling to do, and I'm okay with that.
The self-discovery process can take many twists and turns. Sometimes we discover something we used to want, but we now want MORE. Sometimes, it’s just not our thing anymore.
Both are okay.
Both are exciting.
Both are magical.
Just be honest with yourself about what YOU align with regarding what you want to manifest. Let it go, or let it grow. But mostly, have fun on the journey!
You can outgrow things that you once desired, and that’s OKAY!
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Full transcription of the episode:
There are so many different manifesting tips out there. Some will jive with you, some will not. Some will be super complex, some will be super simple. I'm a big believer, and it's nice to have manifesting tips, especially when we're stuck. So today I'm going to share a really powerful, simple tip with you that's going to help you with your manifesting efforts when you're stuck, or when you're feeling like you're not able to take action on your heart's desires.
And it's really, really simple: You want to identify if you are unwilling or incapable of taking the desired steps in order to manifest your heart's desires.
And there's a huge difference between being incapable versus being unwilling. And most people think that they're unwilling to take the action, and that's simply just not true. Most people are incapable because they need support. And so let's look at the definition of these two words. Incapable means lacking the capacity, ability, or qualifications to get it done. According to the Webster Dictionary. I'm a big believer in being incapable is actually much easier to overcome than being unwilling, because unwilling means to be reluctant or offering opposition to perform the challenge. If you're unwilling to do something, nobody can make you do it.
Also, this also comes down to drive. You either have drive or you don't, and nobody can teach that. Oftentimes, people think that they are unwilling to do something, and they might even label themselves as lazy or unmotivated. But it's really not that they're just incapable. And incapable is easy to overcome by asking yourself another powerful question. And that is, what are resources or people or programs that can assist me in fulfilling my heart's desires? Because sometimes we need someone or we can rely on something else that will assist us in taking action.
For example, let's say you're wanting to meditate every single day. Well, a resource would be a calendar. That would be a really powerful resource. And then the next step to take would be to figure out what your schedule is, make it a priority to meditate, and then also place what time and day you're going to meditate in your calendar. Because this allows you to have it in writing. You wouldn't miss a doctor's appointment or a dentist's appointment. And this is going to assist you in knowing “Okay, I got my appointment in there. I'm making myself a priority.” My resource in making this a priority and also overcoming my incapability would be having a calendar to make it a priority to meditate daily.
Or for me. When I knew I wanted to leave my business, I set a deadline. And then I realized that six months into that deadline, I gave myself a year deadline and six months into it. I wasn't anywhere closer to leaving my career and transitioning out. So I needed someone to help me. I also needed someone to hold me accountable. And so I hired a coach in order to do that. And it was the best investment of my life because I was able to work through some of my fears and come up with things that I could offer in my business. And so please note that whatever it is that you feel incapable around, there are tons of resources and tons of people and tons of apps and tons of things out there that can assist you in manifesting the very thing that you want to manifest.
When you're unwilling, there's another powerful question I want to have you ask yourself if you're unwilling. So if you get the answer, I'm unwilling. Well, the next question is, why am I unwilling? Why am I unwilling to take these actions on my heart's desire? It could be I'm scared, I'm fearful, or it could be just I don't feel like it. And if you don't feel like it, your body is telling you something. You might not feel like it because you're out of alignment with it. You might not feel like it is because you might have wanted this heart's desire a long time ago, and then all of a sudden you're like, “Now I have some space and room to take action and things like that, but I don't want to do it.” And that's perfectly okay. You can outgrow things that you once desired to do. I know for me, there's lots of things that I'm unwilling to do, and I'm okay with that. I'm perfectly okay with that.
But we have to be really honest with ourselves. If it's really unwillingness or if there's fear and asking more about the fear that's around it, that's going to help you to identify the resources that are available to you. If you feel incapable of doing it. Now, it does take time and it does take time to identify resources that are available to you. I want to encourage you to be creative on the resources that are available to you and always ask for help.
I know for me, like, I'm a big Facebook group person. I love Facebook groups. And anytime I am curious about some local resource, I will go into my local Facebook groups and ask for local resources on things that I'm looking for support. Like, I'm about to host a retreat in June for our Sacred Awakening program. And I want to know someone that knows a good caterer that can make some yummy food for us. Right?
And so utilizing resources is key. And that also helps us get into the community as well. Because when we have resources and when we have community, it helps us work through our fears. And also just reaching out and asking for support can help us overcome those fears because we're putting ourselves out there. Research has shown that you're more likely to achieve a goal, a desired outcome when you share it with at least one person. So taking the time to ask for resources or if anybody knows of anybody that can help you with something that you are trying to manifest is a great way to just tell the universe, “ I'm so serious about this and now I'm going to start asking for resources to help me with this.”
You do not need to be an expert in order to manifest the heart's desires or whatever it is that you're wanting to manifest. There are lots of people out there and lots of resources out there that can support you in your manifesting efforts and you do not have to do it alone. We are not meant to do everything alone and people love helping other people. So ask for resources, ask for support. Ask yourself, like, Who can support me? How can I be supported? How can I take these next steps in order to manifest this very thing that I'm wanting to manifest?”
Please do not mistake unwillingness and incapableness. Incapableness? Is that even a word? I don't know. But anyway, you're most likely stuck because you're incapable of taking the action at that moment in time to find the resources to help you. And if you're unwilling, be honest with yourself and let that desire go because if you're unwilling, It's just taking a brain space and that brain space could be utilized for something else that you are in alignment with to manifest.
So just be honest with yourself and it's going to be amazing.
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